
Many people can't imagine life without dogs. We admire and adore them
for their loyalty, unconditional affection, playful exuberance and zest
for life. Nevertheless, dogs and people are very different animals.
Although officially “man's best friend,” dogs have some innocent but
irksome tendencies-like jumping up to greet, barking, digging and
chewing-that can make it downright difficult to live with them! To make
the most of your relationship with your dog, you need to teach her some
important skills that will help her live harmoniously in a human
household.
Learning how to train your dog will improve your life
and hers, enhance the bond between you, and ensure her safety-and it can
be a lot of fun. Dogs are usually eager to learn, and the key to
success is good communication. Your dog needs to understand how you'd
like her to behave
and why it's in her best interest to comply with your wishes.
How Should You Do It?
If you ask around, you'll get all kinds of advice about training your
dog. Some people will tell you that the key is to use a “firm hand”-to
make sure your dog doesn't think she can get away with naughty behavior.
Some people argue that you should only use rewards in dog training and
avoid punishing your dog in any way. Some people insist that all you
have to do is “be the alpha dog,” assert your status as the dominant
leader of your “pack.” It's easy to get overwhelmed by the glut of
differing opinions out there.
Regardless of which method and
techniques you use, effective dog training boils down to one
thing-controlling the consequences of your dog's behavior. If you want
to influence the way your dog behaves, you need to:
- Reward behaviors you like.
- Make sure behaviors you don't like aren't rewarded.
Understand How Your Dog Learns

One
of the most frequent complaints of pet parents is that their dogs “just
won't listen.” But put yourself in your dog's shoes for a moment. If
someone was constantly chattering away in a foreign language that you'd
never heard before, how long would you pay attention? Probably not for
very long-because you simply wouldn't be able to understand what the
foreign speaker was trying to communicate.
To communicate clearly
and consistently with your dog, you need to understand how she learns.
Dogs learn through the immediate consequences of their behavior. The
nature of those consequences determines how they'll behave in the
future. Dogs, like other animals (people included), work to get good
things and avoid bad things in life. If a behavior results in something
rewarding-like food, a good belly rub, playtime with dog buddies or a
game of fetch with her pet parent-your dog will do that behavior more
often. On the other hand, if a behavior results in an unpleasant
consequence-like being ignored or losing things she finds
rewarding-she'll do that behavior less often.
If You Like the Behavior, Reward It
Some training methods use punishment, like leash corrections and scolding, to discourage dogs from doing everything
except what you want them to do. Other methods cut right to the chase and focus on teaching dogs what you
do
want them to do. While both tactics can work, the latter is usually the
more effective approach, and it's also much more enjoyable for you and
your dog. For example, you can easily use treats, games and praise to
teach your dog to sit when people approach during walks in the
neighborhood. If your dog is sitting, she won't be dragging you toward
the people, jumping up when they get close enough, mouthing on their
arms and legs, and so on. That's pretty efficient training-no pain or
intimidation needed. Alternatively, you could grab your dog's leash and
jerk her to the ground every time she jumps up to greet people, and
you'd most likely get the same effect in the end-no more jumping up. But
consider the possible fallout:
- Your dog might
decide that people are scary since she gets hurt whenever she tries to
greet them-and she might try to drive them away by growling or barking
the next time they approach.
- Your dog might decide that YOU are scary since you hurt her whenever she tries to greet people.
If
you can teach your dog polite manners without hurting or frightening
her, why not do it? Rather than punishing her for all the things you
don't want her to do, concentrate on teaching your dog what you
do
want her to do. When your dog does something you like, convince her to
do it again by rewarding her with something she loves. You'll get the
job done without damaging the relationship between you and your best
friend.
If You Don't Like the Behavior, Take Rewards Away

The
most important part of training your dog is teaching her that it pays
to do things you like. But your dog also needs to learn that it
doesn't
pay to do things you don't like. Fortunately, discouraging unwanted
behavior doesn't have to involve pain or intimidation. You just need to
make sure that behavior you dislike doesn't get rewarded. Most of the
time, dog motivations aren't mysterious. They simply do what works! Dogs
jump up on people, for example, because people pay attention to them as
a result. They can learn
not to jump up if we ignore them when
they jump up instead. It can be as simple as turning away or staring at
the sky when your dog jumps up to greet or play with you. As soon as she
sits, you can give her the attention she craves. If you stick to this
plan, your dog will learn two things at once. Doing something you like
(sitting) reliably works to earn what she wants (attention), and doing
things you don't like (jumping up) always results in the loss of what
she wants.
Control Consequences Effectively
As you teach your dog what you do and don't want her to do, keep the following guidelines in mind:
- Consequences must be immediate
Dogs live in the present. Unlike us, they can't make connections
between events and experiences that are separated in time. For your dog
to connect something she does with the consequences of that behavior,
the consequences must be immediate. If you want to discourage your dog
from doing something, you have to catch her with her paw in the
proverbial cookie jar. For example, if your dog gets too rough during
play and mouths your arm, try saying “OUCH!” right at the moment you
feel her teeth touch your skin. Then abruptly end playtime. The message
is immediate and clear: Mouthing on people results in no more fun.
Rewards for good behavior must come right after that behavior has
happened, too. Say a child in a classroom answers a teacher's question
correctly, gets up from his desk, sharpens his pencil and then punches
another kid in the arm on the way back to his seat. Then the teacher
says, “Good job, Billy!” and offers him a piece of candy. What did Billy
get the candy for? Timing is crucial. So be prepared to reward your dog
with treats, praise, petting and play the instant she does something
you like.
- Consequences must be consistent When training
your dog, you-and everyone else who interacts with her-should respond
the same way to things she does every time she does them. For example,
if you sometimes pet your dog when she jumps up to greet you but
sometimes yell at her instead, she's bound to get confused. How can she
know when it's okay to jump up and when it's not?
Be a Good Leader
Some
people believe that the only way to transform a disobedient dog into a
well-behaved one is to dominate her and show her who's boss. However,
the “alpha dog” concept in dog training is based more on myth than on
animal science. More importantly, it leads misguided pet parents to use
training techniques that aren't safe, like the “alpha roll.” Dogs who
are forcibly rolled onto their backs and held down can become frightened
and confused, and they're sometimes driven to bite in self defense.
Keep
in mind that ditching the “alpha dog” concept doesn't mean you have to
let your dog do anything she likes. It's fine to be the boss and make
the rules-but you can do that without unnecessary conflict. Be a
benevolent boss, not a bully. Good leadership isn't about dominance and
power struggles. It's about controlling your dog's behavior by
controlling her access to things she wants. YOU have the opposable
thumbs that open cans of dog food, turn doorknobs and throw tennis
balls! Use them to your best advantage. If your dog wants to go out, ask
her to sit before you open the door. When she wants dinner, ask her to
lie down to earn it. Does she want to go for a walk? If she's jumping up
on you with excitement, wait calmly until she sits.
Then clip on the leash and take your walk. Your dog will happily work for everything she loves in life. She can learn to do what
you want in order to earn what
she wants.
Training New Skills
It's easy to reward good behavior if you focus on teaching your dog
to do specific things you like. Dogs can learn an impressive array of
obedience skills and entertaining tricks. Deciding what you'd like your
dog to learn will depend on your interests and lifestyle. If you want
your dog to behave politely, you can focus on skills like sit, down,
wait at doors, leave it, come when called and stay. If you want to
enhance your enjoyment of outings with your dog, you can train her to
walk politely on leash, without pulling. If you have a high-energy dog
and would like outlets for her exuberance, you can teach her how to play
fetch, play tug-of-war or participate in dog sports, such as agility,
rally obedience, freestyle and flyball. If you'd like to impress your
friends or just spend some quality time with your dog, you can take her
to clicker training or trick-training classes. The possibilities are
endless! Please see the following articles to find out more about what
you and your dog can learn to do together: Clicker Training Your Pet,
Teaching Your Dog Not to Jump Up on People, Teaching Your Dog to Come
When Called, Teaching Your Dog Not to Pull on Leash, Teaching Your Dog
to Play Tug-of-War, and Teaching Your Dog to Play Fetch.
Training Tips
After
you decide on some new skills you'd like to teach your dog, you'll be
ready to start training. To maximize her learning potential and make
sure you both enjoy the training experience, keep the following basic
tips in mind:
- When teaching new skills, keep training sessions short and sweet
Like kids, dogs don't have long attention spans. There's no
hard-and-fast rule, but an ideal average training session should last 15
minutes or less. Within that session, you can work on one skill or
switch between a few different skills. To keep things interesting, try
doing 5 to 15 repetitions of one behavior and then doing 5 to 15
repetitions of another behavior. You can also practice new skills and
keep old ones polished by doing single repetitions at convenient times
throughout the day. For example, before giving your dog a tasty new chew
bone, ask her to sit or lie down to earn it.
- Quit while you're ahead
End training sessions on a good note, with a skill you know your dog
can do well, and be sure to stop before either one of you gets tired,
bored or frustrated.
- For dogs, English is a second language
Dogs aren't born understanding English. They can learn the significance
of specific words, like “sit” and “walk” and “treat,” but when humans
bury those familiar words in complex sentences, dogs sometimes have
difficulty understanding. They can also get confused when people use
different words for the same thing. For example, some people will
confuse their dogs by saying, “Fluffy, down!” one day and “Sit down,
Fluffy!” another day. Then they wonder why Fluffy doesn't respond the
same way every time. When teaching your dog a cue or command, decide on
just one word or phrase, and make sure you and your family use it clearly and consistently.
- Take baby steps
Dogs, just like people, learn best when new tasks are broken down into
small steps. For example, you can't go out and line dance unless you
learn all of the individual steps first! When teaching your dog a new
skill, begin with an easy first step and increase difficulty gradually.
If you're training your dog to stay, start by asking her to stay for
just 3 seconds. After some practice, try increasing the duration of her
stay to 8 seconds. When your dog has mastered an 8-second stay, make
things a little harder by increasing the time to 15 seconds. Over the
next week or two, continue to gradually increase the duration of the
stay from 15 seconds to 30 seconds to a minute to a few minutes, etc. By
training systematically and increasing difficulty slowly, you'll help
your dog learn faster in the long run.
- Work on only one part of a skill at a time
Many of the skills we want our dogs to learn are complex. For instance,
if you want to train a solid sit-stay, you'll need to work on teaching
your dog that she should stay in a sitting position until you release
her (duration), she should stay while you move away from her (distance),
and she should stay while distracting things are going on around her
(distraction). You'll probably both get frustrated if you try to teach
her all of these things at the same time. Instead, start with just one
part of the skill and, when your dog has mastered that, add another
part. For example, you can work on duration first. When your dog can
sit-stay for a few minutes in a quiet place with no distractions while
you stand right next to her, start training her to stay while you move
away from her. While you focus on that new part of the skill, go back to
asking your dog to stay for just a few seconds again. When your dog can
stay while you move around the room, slowly build up the duration of
the stay again. Then you can add the next part-training in a more
distracting environment. Again, when you make the skill harder by adding
distraction, make the other parts-duration and distance-easier for a
little while. If you work on all the parts of a complex skill separately
before putting them together, you'll set your dog up to succeed.
- If you run into trouble, go back a few steps
If you're training your dog to do something new and you stop making
progress, you may have increased the difficulty of the skill too
quickly. Similarly, if you're practicing a behavior your dog hasn't
performed in a while and she seems a little rusty, she may need some
help remembering what you want her to do. If you run into training
challenges like these, just refresh your dog's memory by making the
skill a little easier for a few repetitions. Go back to a step that you
know your dog can successfully perform, and practice that for a while
before trying to increase difficulty again.
- Practice everywhere, with everyone
If you learn that two plus two equals four in a classroom, you'll take
that information with you wherever you go. Dogs, however, learn very
specifically and don't automatically apply their knowledge in different
situations and places as well as people do. If you teach your dog to sit
on cue in your kitchen, you'll have a beautifully kitchen-trained dog.
But she might not understand what you mean when you ask her to sit in
other locations. If you want your dog to perform new skills everywhere,
you'll need to practice them in multiple places-your home, your yard,
out on walks, at friends' houses, at the park and anywhere else you take
your dog.
- Use real rewards Be sure to reward your dog
with things she truly finds rewarding. Some dogs will happily work for
dry kibble when training in your living room but ignore it if you're
training in the park. Because the park's a more distracting environment,
paying attention there is a harder job for your dog. Pay her
accordingly by using a reward worth working for, like small pieces of
chicken or cheese, or a chance to run off-leash at the dog park with her
buddies. Also keep in mind that what your dog considers rewarding at
any given time may change. If she's just eaten a big meal, a scratch
behind the ears or a game of tug might be most rewarding. If she hasn't
eaten in a while, she'll probably work enthusiastically for tasty
treats.
- Be patient Training your dog will take time and
effort-but it can be a great deal of fun for you and for her. And your
hard work will pay off. With patience and persistence, you and your dog
can accomplish great things.
An Ounce of Prevention
If your toddler was repeatedly sticking her fingers into open
electrical outlets, what would you do? Would you sit her down and try to
explain why that's not a good idea? Would you smack her every time she
did it? Nope, you'd probably buy some outlet covers. Voil�! Problem
solved. Prevention is sometimes the best solution. When training a dog,
the easiest way to deal with a behavior problem might be to simply
prevent the undesired behavior from happening. If your dog raids the
kitchen trash can, you could spend weeks training a perfect down-stay in
another room-or you could move the trash can to a place where your dog
can't get to it. Prevention is also important if you're trying to train
your dog to do one thing instead of another. For example, if you want to
house train your dog, she'll learn fastest if you use a crate to
prevent her from making mistakes inside while you focus on training her
to eliminate outside.
Let Your Dog Be a Dog
Many
behavior problems can be prevented by providing “legal,” acceptable ways
for your dog to express her natural impulses. There are some things
that dogs just need to do. So rather than trying to get your dog to stop
doing things like chewing, mouthing and roughhousing altogether,
channel these urges in the right direction. Increased physical activity
and mental enrichment are excellent complements to training